It's so true that girls feel insecure with their boyfriends. I'm not bull shitting here people, many of my friends are experiencing it. I have also looked up on some sites on being insecure.

Feeling insecure in a relationship is a lot like a headache: most of us experience the pain of it at one time or another and its curable once we know what causes it and what to do to avoid it.
This 'pain' is most acute in romantic relationships. They can really bring out our insecurities. Insecure - lacking self-confidence.
Here's the interesting thing. Almost everyone is insecure about some aspect of themselves. So if almost everyone has something they worry about, or don't feel confident about, then how can they make you feel better about yourself? They can't. They're busy trying to get ahead or just get by in this world.


Causes of insecurities
On a more human level you might be choosing the wrong person for yourself. If you are a person who likes attention, you're probably not going to do well with a man or woman who is completely involved in their own lives with very little time and energy to spare for you.

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But why feel insecure,girls? I know that WE tend to think a lot and be suspicious when bfs have msgs or phone calls, or rather spending little time with you or what so ever. I believe that if that guy particularly loves you, he won't do such things to you.

He would try his best to give the best to you. Like, whenever he have time, he would give them all to you. Even if he's tired, he would try to call or text message you to see if you're home. Sometimes, guys just don't like telling their gfs what they are doing or where they are.. I know sometimes this would lead to quarrels and cool wars. Awww.. I know I know.

GIRLS, discuss every problem you're facing with your boy.

GUYS, you should be responsible too. Care about your gf and NEVER let them cry for you. Sometimes, girls just like to sprout things that they don't mean it.